Dear God, Help Me out with the Basics, Would You?
Dear God, Show me how to love the ones that are like, really hard to love. The misogynists and boundary bullies, the fake leaders and land-rapers. Actually, for the sake of efficiency, just show me how...
View ArticleIs the Secret Real?
Is the Secret real? If you’re familiar with my work you know that I’m a huge believer in the Law of Attraction. I was even featured in the groundbreaking movie and book The Secret, which introduced the...
View ArticleOvercoming Not Good Enough
I have a creative assistant who’s worked for me for many months. He’s more than my assistant. He is a friend and support. He helps me run my company more smoothly by just being by my side. I recently...
View Article#metoo The Importance of Speaking Our Truth
I debated posting this and seeing the solidarity of all my sisters compelled me to share. And it’s 11:11 as I’m writing this so I feel like it’s a nod from the universe. I was sexually molested as a...
View ArticleThe Danger of Caring About Others More Than Yourself
When you throw a party, do you have fun or do you spend all your time running around, making sure everyone else is having fun? Or when you plan a social activity with friends, are you worried about all...
View ArticleHaving Confidence Is Not as Hard as You Think
In my women’s coaching circle, one of the women was sharing about a work situation and expressed that she “needs to work on being more confident.” She believed that she would be more respected in her...
View ArticleWhat Is Work, and What Is Play — for You?
“But what is work and what is not work? Is it work to dig, to carpenter, to plant trees, to fell trees, to ride, to fish, to hunt, to feed chickens, to play the piano, to take photographs, to build a...
View Article3 Crystals to Attract Positive Vibes
Looking for good energy to surround you? I know I am. Sometimes we can’t control the world around us, but we can get some assistance from Mother Earth. I’m talking about Crystal energies! If you aren’t...
View ArticleA Withered Hand of Strength
The afternoon in the foothills of the Smoky Mountains appeared somber as I drove along I-24 Westbound from Knoxville to Memphis to be with my children. I had been overseas for three months in the...
View ArticleLost Innocence: The Healing of a Heart
I met Rafi on a bright and sunny morning in the rainforest. He is a little man with black liquid eyes, dark skin and silver-white hair, a long-distance walker as people call him in his village in New...
View ArticleGoing Back to a Hard Place
Imagine revisiting a place you’d been long ago during a hard time in your life. Maybe that time was long, long ago, and the place far, far away. Or maybe it was last week, and the place is the coffee...
View ArticleHave You Been Afraid of Your Next Self?
It feels quiet. Listening to Billie Holiday, I’ll be seeing you. I just finished my next book, Where did you go? The book I have been afraid to write but found the courage to do so. I found this place,...
View ArticleThe 5 Biggest Assumptions I’ve Made About Business
After starting about 20 businesses and being invested in about 30 more at this moment, I’ve probably seen most of what you can see. I’ve been on the boards of billion revenue companies and tiny...
View ArticleTechnology – The Unruly Child
Technology is like an unruly child. Who will take a stand to discipline this wild horse? Somehow it seems to me that the ever expanding realm of technology is the pink elephant in the room. I love...
View ArticleRecommitting to Sisterly Love. (Because Women Wounding Other Women Won’t Get...
We’re all looking for places to put our pain. I mean, where are you going to put your societally-induced agony? Who can you take THAT out on? You can’t march everyday or sit with your support group....
View ArticleThe Fearless Pursuit of Your Dreams
“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” ~Paulo Coelho I have seven nieces and nephews and not a day goes by where I don’t find myself in awe of them....
View ArticleHow to Raise an Emotionally Intelligent Child
“Whenever I held my newborn baby in my arms, I used to think that what I said and did to him could have an influence not only on him but on all whom he met, not only for a day or a month or a year, but...
View ArticleWhy Winning is a Loser’s Game
I tell the kids, somebody’s gotta win, somebody’s gotta lose. ~Yogi Berra Are you a winner? Or a loser? Perhaps I didn’t phrase that too well… Do you see yourself as a winner? Or a loser? Most...
View ArticleNarcissistic or Self-Centered: A User’s Guide
I once had a boyfriend who took whatever he wanted – he didn’t wait for others to be seated before he started eating; he ate however much food he wanted at a potluck without worrying if others had...
View ArticleDon’t Fall for Your Own BS
I recently learned a life-changing lesson about myself from a horse. Yes, a horse. His name is Rooster and he is one of the best teachers I have ever had. Here’s what happened. I was blessed to spend a...
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