Transform from Worrywart to Dream Manifestor!
There seems to be a lot to worry about in life given we cannot control everything. But worrying is a HUGE drain of your energy and completely useless so today I am going to offer you a way to stop...
View ArticleThe Twenty-Seven Most Important Rules for Keeping Your House in Order
To keep your house from falling into cluttered chaos: Never buy “souvenirs.” Somewhere, keep an entirely empty shelf or drawer. Strive to keep surfaces bare. Put away kitchen appliances you don’t use...
View ArticleWant to Be Successful? Be an Outsider.
“The ones who make it onto our radar, the ones who made an impact, have chosen to live a life of standing out, not fitting in.” -Seth Godin If you look through the top performers; the entrepreneurs,...
View ArticleYour Vision-Quest
Time waves . . . the moments of life passing through the fabrics of space. Each of these moments, rolls and crests through the fabric; they remain stable as long as your awareness, your consciousness...
View ArticleAlways, Always Remember Where You Came From
I taste the magic in your smile, like the whole universe in a single drop. You are awe. -excerpt from There, I Might Find Peace I looked at the stars last night and saw the making of me. The sky was my...
View ArticleStop Being so Distracted
There’s this idea in Eastern and Western philosophy that we must learn how to enjoy the present moment without getting distracted by the past or future. Ever since the invention of words, the human...
View ArticleThe Self-Addressed Envelope We Send to Ourselves
“Every day is like a self-addressed envelope we post to ourself. Be careful what you post in it.” I went through a phase as a kid when I collected autographs from baseball players. It was a pretty...
View Article“Living” Is the Only Purpose of Life
I’m a sociopath. Or a narcissist. Or a fraud. A scam. A con. A criminal. A bad son. Asperger’s. Money is my “religion”. “Crazy!” It’s a good thing everyone else is so perfect. That way after I upset...
View ArticleHow to Stabilize Yourself after Your World Turns Upside Down
You know how it feels when your world turns upside down. Divorce dissolves your marriage. Downsizing forces you to lose your job. Your mom or dad dies. I have been sucker punched a few times during my...
View ArticleThe Most Powerful Possible Yes to Women
…to the women determined to restore the divine to where it has been pummeled out of memory, where denial is so calcified that our beauty is last to be seen in economics and science and law— laws that...
View ArticleThe Premise of a Promise
Listen to these three variations on a theme: “That piano, in the living room, has been sitting untouched for months. I’m gonna start playing again.” “I’ll pick up piano again when my schedule is less...
View ArticleThe Three Rooms: Which Room Are You In?
“Remember, happiness doesn’t depend on who you are or what you have, it depends solely on what you think.” – Buddha Although the Buddha is often credited with that quote, its origin doesn’t really...
View ArticleDo You Say YES When You Want to Say NO?
Here’s a secret — you can be a good person with a kind heart and still say no. This took me years to figure out, and it affected my gut health! It’s gonna get personal here but I could hardly go to the...
View ArticleHow to Attract and Create Lasting, Real Love
How to attract and create lasting, real love – a question for the ages, right? Everyone wants to know how to find and keep the love they desire. Why does it seem so hard to create lasting love? I have...
View ArticleBe You, Everyone Else Is Taken!
I was in Miami speaking on a panel to major beauty brands about how to reach consumers. The priceless take-away (other than the awesome swag bag, gotta love beauty conventions!) was authenticity is...
View Article20 Very Easy Tips for Lowering Your Daily Stress Level
When we’re stressed, we tend to become more stressed. That’s because when we’re rushed and harried, we cut corners. We don’t take the time to do the little things that, though not difficult or...
View Article4 Easy Ways to Build Your Child’s Self Esteem with Your Words
“If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say about them to others.” – Haim Ginott Children rely on us to interpret the world: “That’s HOT, Don’t touch!… Now we wash...
View ArticleThe Bad Lessons Failed Relationships Want to Teach
Every time a relationship fails, especially one that we wanted to continue, we try to console ourselves in any number of ways. “There are plenty of fish in the sea” or “he/she will never find someone...
View ArticleMining Your Mind For Gold
This is a no-brainer: When you’re fearful of money, all of your financial decisions come from a place of fear. But you may already be thinking, “Fear of money? That’s not me!” I beg to disagree. If...
View ArticleA Reminder for When You Are Feeling Broken
When the highs of life are replaced by the lows, it seems like the suffering is never going away. I am usually very naïve about this because the eternal optimist in me always believes that if I am...
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